Domestic Violence, National Celebration of Pro Bono, and Breast Cancer Awareness Month

October is a month of reflection, awareness, and advocacy as we recognize Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the National Celebration of Pro Bono Awareness and Breast Cancer Awareness Month. While these issues affect individuals from all walks of life, they disproportionately impact women. All three observances remind us of the importance of education, prevention, support, and collective action. More than that, they comport with the WWBA’s mission statement “The mission of the WWBA is to promote justice for all, regardless of gender; to advance the social, economic and legal status for women through the law; to expand opportunities for women and to raise the level of competence and integrity in the legal profession”.

Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Domestic Violence Awareness Month traces its origins to 1981, when the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence organized a national effort to unite advocates, raise awareness, and support survivors. More than four decades later, the need for continued advocacy remains as urgent as ever.

Domestic violence affects individuals of every race, religion, culture, socioeconomic background, and gender. It also profoundly impacts children and families. No community is immune.

At its core, domestic violence involves coercive control, through which an abusive partner seeks to maintain power and control over another. Abuse can take many forms, including physical, emotional, psychological, verbal, financial, and sexual abuse. Whether through intimidation, threats, manipulation, or physical harm, domestic violence is never acceptable.

The passage of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) in 1994 marked a significant milestone in the fight against domestic violence. Since then, federal funding has helped expand critical programs, shelters, and legal services for survivors. Here in Westchester County, organizations such as Hope's Door, the Pace Women's Justice Center, and My Sisters' Place provide invaluable assistance to individuals and families affected by domestic violence.

One question that survivors are too often asked is, "Why did she stay?"

But the more important question is, "What barriers prevented her from leaving, and what support does she need to be safe?"

For many survivors, leaving an abusive relationship is neither simple nor immediately safe. A survivor may need to remain in the family home so that her children can continue attending their schools and maintain some sense of stability. She may need financial assistance, child support, or spousal maintenance to provide for her family. She may need custody orders that allow her to make important educational and medical decisions for her children, as well as parenting-time arrangements that prioritize everyone's safety.

Survivors need access to legal representation, supportive services, and a justice system that understands the complexities of domestic violence. As attorneys, we have the privilege and responsibility of using our knowledge and training to help survivors navigate these challenges and rebuild their lives.

For some survivors, leaving can be the most dangerous time. Abusers may escalate threats, intimidation, or violence when they believe they are losing control. This reality underscores why safety planning, legal protections, and accessible community resources are so critical.

Domestic violence often thrives in silence and isolation. We must continue to bring these issues into the light, challenge the stigma surrounding abuse, and create an environment in which survivors feel supported rather than judged.

We can make a difference not only as legal professionals but also as members of our communities. We can help by connecting survivors with resources, advocating for accessible mental health care and legal services, and supporting legislation that strengthens protections for victims. In 2026, Westchester County took an important step by providing public funding to assist domestic violence survivors with changing the locks on their homes. Sometimes, a measure as seemingly simple as securing one's home can make a meaningful difference in a survivor's safety and peace of mind.

As a family law attorney, I have represented many individuals who have experienced violence and abuse in their homes. They come to me seeking protection, stability, and hope for themselves and their children. Many are understandably fearful of the legal process and uncertain whether the courts will be able to protect them from further harm.

I understand those fears. I also understand how difficult it can be for survivors to navigate a legal system that requires them to establish specific statutory grounds for relief while simultaneously managing the emotional, financial, and practical consequences of abuse.

These experiences have reinforced my belief that we must continue working toward a legal system that is responsive to the realities of domestic violence and provides meaningful protections to those who need them most.

As members of the WWBA and the legal profession, we have an opportunity to be part of that change. We must continue to educate, advocate, and speak up for those whose voices are too often unheard.

2026 National Celebration of Pro Bono: October 25-31, 2026.

The National Celebration of Pro Bono is a nationwide event organized by the American Bar Association established in 2009 in response to the increasing need for pro bono services during difficult economic times and the unprecedented willingness of attorneys to meet that demand. Every October since 2009, legal organizations across America participate in this event to draw attention to the need for pro bono participation, and to thank those who give their time year-round. The ABA’s theme this year is “Serving Justice. Strengthening Democracy” and it “recognizes the essential role of pro bono attorneys in ensuring that legal problems do not prevent people from participating fully in civic life. Every act of pro bono service helps individuals protect their rights, secure stability, and engage more fully in their communities, reinforcing the foundation of our democracy.”

I am proud to say that the WWBA and its members turned out in full force to honor the Legal Services of the Hudson Valley as well as its three honorees: The Hon. Lyndon D. Williams, Champion of Justice, Cliff Weber, Esq. & The PCSB Community Foundation, Community Partner in Justice and our very own Past President Deborah A. Scalise, Esq., Partner in Justice. It was a beautiful and rewarding evening for all who attended. Deb’s speech beautifully illustrated the important work performed by Legal Services of the Hudson Valley and its dedicated attorneys, many of whom are WWBA members, to ensure that individuals in need have access to essential legal services.

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

October is also Breast Cancer Awareness Month, a time dedicated to increasing awareness, promoting early detection, supporting individuals and families affected by breast cancer, and advancing research toward better treatments and, ultimately, a cure.

Breast cancer has touched the lives of so many of us, whether personally or through a family member, friend, or colleague. This month serves as an important reminder of the value of recommended screenings, education, and continued support for those facing a breast cancer diagnosis.

The WWBA has a longstanding tradition of supporting the American Cancer Society's Making Strides Against Breast Cancer Walk through Team Orbach and Friends, led by our own Adrienne Orbach.

On Sunday, October 18, 2026, along with other WWBA members, I had the honor of joining Team Orbach and Friends at Manhattanville University for this year's walk. It was an inspiring day filled with camaraderie, hope, and a shared commitment to supporting those whose lives have been affected by breast cancer.

I am especially proud of the WWBA members who participated and contributed to this meaningful cause. Their generosity and commitment reflect the very best of our organization.

Although the walk has concluded, the opportunity to make a difference continues. I encourage our members to consider making a donation to support the American Cancer Society's lifesaving research, patient services, and advocacy efforts.

Moving Forward Together

As we recognize Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the National Celebration of Pro Bono, and Breast Cancer Awareness Month, let us remember that awareness is only the beginning. Meaningful change requires compassion, advocacy, action, and a willingness to support one another.

Whether through our professional work, volunteer efforts, charitable contributions, or simply being there for someone in need, each of us has the ability to make a difference.

I am proud to be part of an organization whose members consistently demonstrate their commitment to uplifting women, supporting families, and strengthening our community.

Thank you all.

Shari R. Gordon

President